Do you constantly scan rooms for danger? Startle at every sound? Feel unable to relax even when you’re objectively safe? Does your body feel perpetually braced for the next threat, leaving you exhausted, anxious, and unable to truly rest? If you’re asking...
If you’ve survived narcissistic abuse, the word “boundaries” might feel complicated. Perhaps you were punished every time you tried to set one. Maybe you were told your boundaries were “controlling,” “selfish,” or “too...
If you’ve ever wondered why some days you can handle stress with ease and other days the smallest thing sets you off, the answer may lie in your window of tolerance. The window of tolerance is a concept from trauma psychology that describes your nervous...
For many trauma survivors, the body doesn’t feel like a safe place to live. Instead of being a source of grounding and vitality, it can feel foreign, numb, or overwhelming. You might notice yourself disconnecting from sensations, struggling with chronic tension,...
Trauma doesn’t just live in your memories—it lives in your body. You may feel it in a racing heart, a frozen sense of numbness, or a tightness in your chest that appears out of nowhere. Even when the event is long past, your nervous system can continue to react...
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I write about the things that helped me understand my own nervous system, and what I've learned guiding others through their healing. It's not always neat or linear, but it's real.
If you're tired of just surviving and ready to feel safe in your own skin again, these words are for you.
Start wherever you are. Your body is already waiting to meet you.
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